Raise your hand if you enjoy wearing clothes that are uncomfortable. I tell my husband, “We should not think about our underwear, socks or shoes during the process of the day. They should only come to mind when it is time to put on PJ’s.” If you are spending time thinking about your clothing items, they probably are not fitting well.
I know all about blue jeans that can cut off circulation, and I can tell you about skin rashes from metal in buttons or snaps. I have the strangest skin, and I can react to a piece of clothing I have worn 100 times. It just isn’t fun.
When dementia is present, the skin becomes even more sensitive. Fat pads leave the body, and the skin is much closer to the nerves. (In my case, I am relatively sure the fat pads will never leave my body!! Just saying!) This causes the skin to react in ways not previously experience.
Momma has mid-stage Alzheimer’s. We have recently discovered that anything the least bit tight on her arms will cause her frustration. Frustration leads to confusion. Confusion leads to sadness or anger. All these emotions brought on by a shirt that was too tight. THROW THE SHIRT AWAY. A shirt is never worth forfeiting happiness.
While I very much want Momma to wear pretty clothes, have an up to date haircut, and apply foundation and blush and lipstick, I moreso want her to smile. If uncomfortable clothing is keeping her from smiling, all the foundation and blush and lipstick in Texas won’t make life better for her. Hope that gives you Something To Ponder.
Sometimes, You’ve Just Got To Laugh!